There is no shortage of addiction recovery tools and resources out there. There are countdown apps that allow you to track how long you’ve been sober, social media apps exclusively for the recovery community, and even AI chatbots to talk you through moments of potential relapse. However, the best tool for relapse prevention is remembering the old version of yourself that you no longer want to be.
4 Reasons Why Your Past is the Most Powerful Recovery Tool
As the saying goes, “Those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it.” Being mindful of your past life of drug addiction will keep you grounded, and motivated, and lay the foundation for changing your future for the better.
Motivation to change
It’s one thing to know that something is good for you, but it’s something else entirely to have the discipline to achieve it. The same goes for sobriety. Even if you know addiction is ruining your life, you have to wholeheartedly want to change in order to correct the course of your life.
Motivation is one of the most important determinants of whether addiction recovery is successful or not, and one of the best sources of motivation during recovery is thinking about our past selves. Reminiscing on our lowest moments can be painful, especially when we harbor feelings of shame or embarrassment. However, you can repurpose unpleasant old memories to serve as important reminders of why you are trying to get sober.
A benchmark for progress
If you’re in recovery (or thinking about it), then clearly something has clicked. You’ve decided that the old version of yourself is something you no longer want to be, in some way shape, or form. However, it can be difficult to recognize how much progress you’ve made when you’re constantly thinking about your future goals and what you want to achieve.
Use your past as a way of recognizing just how far you’ve come in your recovery journey. Compare how drastically different you are from the ‘you’ from a month, a year, or five years ago. Think about what you’re doing right now — what you’re wearing, smelling, feeling — compared to the old you at a previous point in your life. If you don’t make time to take stock of all that you’ve already accomplished, you’re only setting yourself up for discouragement.
Scenario planning
Have you ever wished you had the ability to see into the future; to know how you would handle a certain encounter or respond in a specific situation? Well no need for a crystal ball. Your past holds most of those answers.
Odds are that how you’ve previously reacted to situations — like bad news, a conflict with a coworker, a spat with your significant other — is pretty similar to how you would react were they to occur today or a year from now. The specifics of what you say or how you respond physically might vary depending on the circumstances, but in your past lies the key that can help you identify your behavioral patterns.
These patterns are where the magic happens when it comes to predicting things about ourselves. In them we can see what our tendencies are — whether we get angry or defensive, avoid the problem, or panic and fear take over. This can give you insight into how you’ll face future challenges as you continue your sobriety journey.
Identifying triggers
In addiction recovery, knowledge is the greatest form of power. The more self-aware you are, you’re more effective you’ll be in recognizing risks that threaten your sobriety and heading them off. This can look like removing yourself from situations that aren’t conducive to recovery, actively choosing a healthy coping mechanism in the face of stress, or understanding your emotional responses before acting on them.
Your past behaviors around drug use in particular can be especially important to the recovery process. Although it might be painful to recall, finding patterns of when, where, and why you used drugs is crucial to creating an effective relapse prevention plan.
You don’t have to face your past alone
Facing your past is the key to unlocking a happier, sober future — but that’s easier said than done. Rather than going it alone, you can turn to others who are in your shoes for judgment-free support through Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous. Taking part in 12-step meetings is free and doesn’t require a commitment. Find the nearest 12-step support group near you today for help in navigating your past and more recovery tools.
