Making changes that stick during addiction recovery can seem challenging and overwhelming. It can be easy to believe that building new habits comes down to willpower and to focus on your perceived lack of it. However, it is much more useful and realistic to see building habits as a skill that you work on and get better at the more you practice it.
Thankfully, experts have identified some key mindsets and behaviors to focus on if you want your new habits to stick. This post will show you the eight steps to consider to make the changes you need a reality.
1. Set a Clear Goal That Is Easy to Achieve
One of the best ways to identify an achievable goal is to determine how easy it is to perform and how specific it is. For example, if you’re trying to exercise more often because it benefits your mental and physical health, don’t start with 20 pushups a day—start with only five.
If you’re trying to meditate to improve your mindfulness, don’t try to have long, 20-minute sessions on day one. Try to meditate for only a minute.
The same goes for every other goal you want to achieve. Instead of saying, “I’ll stay sober forever,” try focusing on actionable steps like, “I’ll attend one support group meeting this week.”
The key is that your goal requires you to perform a specific, small, easy task. That way, you reduce your chances of getting overwhelmed by what’s ahead and can start to get used to the habit you want to form.
2. Focus on One Change at a Time
While the desire to overhaul one’s life can be strong, attempting too much at once often leads to burnout and feeling overwhelmed. Prioritizing one change at a time allows one to build motivation and solidify new habits before moving on to another goal.
Don’t try to incorporate many other habits yet; just focus on journaling as often as you feel comfortable. Of course, you can exercise, meditate, attend support groups, and more in the meantime, but try to keep your new habits to a minimum and only add others once the previous one is in place.
3. Increase the Frequency of Your Habits Slowly
Just as you start with a few or only one new habit, you need to increase the frequency at which you perform this habit just as slowly.
If you have been attending one support group session per week for several weeks and are interested in others, you could attend a second meeting on some weeks, but not every week, until you feel ready to attend multiple weekly meetings.
The same goes for every other habit. Instead of increasing your push-ups from five to ten a day, increase them from five to six, then seven, then eight, and so on. Making small increases ensures that expanding your habit doesn’t become overwhelming.
4. Celebrate Small Wins
Recognizing progress, no matter how small, is vital for maintaining motivation. Celebrations remind you how far you’ve come and inspire you to keep going.
Examples of celebrations include:
- Treat yourself to a new book after 30 days of maintaining a new habit.
- Share milestones with people close to you to receive encouragement and affirmation.
Acknowledging big and small victories reinforces positive behaviors and keeps you focused on long-term success.
5. If Needed, Break Up Habits as You Progress
As you become more consistent in practicing your habits, feel free to break them up and make them more manageable for your needs.
For example, if you find ten minutes of meditation inconvenient, you could divide your ten-minute session into two five-minute sessions.
You could also break up your exercise goals into individual series (e.g., three series of five pushups instead of 15), your journaling sessions into shorter sessions in the morning and at night, and so on.
6. Get Back on Track Quickly if You Miss
Everyone misses their habits from time to time. It happens, and it’s normal. It doesn’t mean all your progress has been for nothing.
When that happens, try to get back on track as soon as possible. If you couldn’t exercise yesterday, try to do it today. And don’t overcompensate, either. Simply try to return to the usual routine as fast as you can.
Additionally, identify the situations that cause you to miss out on habits and, if possible, plan for them accordingly.
6. Build a Support System
One of the best ways to maintain new habits and commit to long-term change is to have a supportive environment around you, also known as a support system.
Examples of how to build a support system include:
- Joining in-person or online support groups like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) or Narcotics Anonymous (NA).
- Partnering with a sponsor or accountability buddy who understands your challenges and goals.
- Opening up to loved ones about your challenges in recovering from addiction and how you would appreciate their support.
- Attending therapy to explore and understand your relationship with substance use.
Having a network of understanding individuals can make the difference between feeling isolated and empowered.
7. Seek Professional Guidance When Needed
Sometimes, the road to change requires expert support. Therapists, counselors, or recovery coaches can offer tailored strategies and insights that align with your unique challenges.
These professionals can help you address underlying issues that hinder progress and provide evidence-based techniques to support your journey to healthier habits.
Don’t hesitate to seek professional help when you feel stuck or overwhelmed. Their expertise can accelerate your progress and enhance your resilience.
8. Stay Patient and Persistent
Lasting change doesn’t happen overnight. It requires consistent effort, patience, and the willingness to embrace the process.
To keep this in mind, consider the meaning of recovery. The “recovery” in “addiction recovery” usually refers to any positive change to your life that helps you manage your addiction, regardless of whether you experience setbacks or relapses.
Remember this definition, as it will help you value all the healthy habits you’ve formed during your recovery journey, regardless of the challenges you face along the way.
Focusing on daily actions and celebrating slow progress helps build persistence and sustain change over time.
Start Making Your New Habits Stick
Transforming your life for the better takes courage and will reward you over the long term, but getting there can be challenging.
However, if you think of building healthier habits as a skill that you get better at the more you do it, you will develop a more patient mindset that is better suited for long-term success.
Try these eight strategies to equip yourself with the tools to overcome challenges, build new habits, and create a better future for yourself and the people you love.
Take the first step today by visiting FindRecovery.com to access resources and support to guide you toward lasting change.